Can you controll who you fall in love with?

This just happens to be what we talked about briefly in Engilish just now. Can you controll who you fall in love with? In my personal opinion you cannot. But you can lie to yourself try to say you are or are not.
Have you ever been in a relationship for so long and then realize that there are no strong feelings? You try to convince yourself that there are but then you just end up miserable and the other person is so in love. The bottom line is just that IT ALWAYS ENDS BADLY!

And don't even get me started when you love someone and they are not at all right for you. Or if you love them and they don't love you back. It's hard to be ont the other end of that.

That's just some of the things on my mind.